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Jeff Callahan

I'm Jeff Callahan

Founder of Become More Compelling

I make it nearly impossible for overthinkers to fail at improving their people skills. (I've helped hundreds of people over the last 10 years)

Want to never run out of things to say in conversation again so you connect with more people and make new friends?

Want to speak up more in important meetings at work so you get promoted faster and have an awesome career?

Want to develop unshakeable social confidence and competence so you can walk into any room and feel like you belong there?

As your coach, I'll help you move forward faster.

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What do my clients say?

Victor

"The wins that I felt that I got out of it was how to keep the conversation going instead of, easily slipping back into your head which for me it was always the easiest thing to do."

Matt

"I've tried many approaches to improving my professional and social networking skills, but nothing has been as impactful as Jeff's coaching. He ends each session with actionable tasks that results in measurable improvements each time."

Julia

"I am much more confident as I've got this newfound competence in my ability to do social activities and handle myself in social conversations. You really helped me, Jeff!"

Dustin

"If I'm in certain situations, I don't have to think about what to say or how to approach it. I just take action. For me, that was one of the biggest pieces. Coaching really provided me that confidence to just start the conversation"

Trudy

“Life is different after coaching. A big win that I got from [coaching] is being able to manage the inner social critic. This means that I can now speak up in meetings and can have difficult conversations."

Matt

"Jeff has given me strategies to be more empathetic, and more present in my day to day interactions.The value I've received is immense, and his coaching is worth it because you can't put a price on changing your life for the better."

Alex

“There are a lot of wins. I mean a lot more than I even would have expected.
Right now I am getting more job interviews, and they are definitely going much better, and I am getting more and higher quality that I wouldn't have had without us working together.”

Sean

"If you want a better way to become self-aware of things that you don't realize you're doing, Jeff is an expert when it comes to charisma."

Francis

"Jeff is a very kind and patient teacher who is more than willing to walk through even the most basic steps in order to help his students understand where to find victory and where to find confidence in a conversation."

Felix

"I had some big wins such as going by myself to meetup groups, where I introduced myself to strangers, chatted with them, and actually had a good time--something I wouldn't have fathomed before committing to working on myself."

Dustin, client
Dustin

“If you get coaching with Jeff 100%, you're going to be moving in the right direction. I mean, the whole reason he's doing this is to get you in a better spot. And if you can do that, it's game changing. I really appreciate what he's done for my life so far.”

Nathan, client
Nathan

"I would definitely recommend Jeff as a coach. What he's given me is a good balance of theory and actionable steps I can use to improve."

Doug

"I feel more confident in that I'm bringing my 50% of the conversation in the right way to interaction and I feel more comfortable with people and talking with people."

Ajibola

"I have seen in meetings where I am getting more credit for my work. Also other things like having more fluid meetings, being able to connect with different people in meetings and things like that. I think [coaching] has definitely helped."

Kortney, client
Kortney

"I know you're coaching me, but it never feels like you're talking down to me. We're just having a conversation, and you're giving me a whole new perspective that I've never seen before!"

Phillip

"If you want to invest in something that is going to give you value throughout your lifetime, never going to expire and going to just make every aspect of your life better. I'd say invest into charisma, public speaking. I'd say that Jeff has definitely helped me with that."

Frequently Asked Questions

Do I have to be an extrovert to be good with people?
Absolutely not! Many of my most socially confident clients are introverts.

People skills aren’t about being loud or outgoing, they’re about building connection through simple, repeatable habits that feel natural to you.
What makes Become More Compelling different from other people skills advice?
Most advice is either too vague (“just be yourself!”) or overly rigid (“memorize these 47 scripts”). My approach is different, it’s built on small, actionable habits that create real-world results without feeling forced or fake.
How long does coaching last?
Typically 3-6 months. Long enough to see behavior change and take action.
Will this take years to see results?
Not at all. Many clients see progress within weeks, sometimes even after their first session. Small, consistent habits compound into big results faster than you think.
What if I’ve already tried to improve my people skills and it didn’t really work?
Most people fail because they rely on random tips from YouTube or cobbled together advice without a system to tie everything together. My coaching is built on a step-by-step process, not scattered advice.
What is the investment for private coaching?
Can I get my company to pay for coaching?
Maybe!

Many companies have some sort of "learning stipend" for their employees. I've had many clients get reimbursed for private coaching by their companies.

If needed, I have a copy/paste email script you can send to your boss to make this easier!
Isn’t working on people skills kind of… fake?
You don’t have to reinvent yourself to improve your people skills.

The real magic happens when you learn to communicate with confidence while staying true to who you are. Becoming a better version of yourself is the goal.
Who are you, and why should I trust you to help me?
I’m Jeff, founder of Become More Compelling.

I’ve helped hundreds of people transform their people skills over the last 10+ years using simple, proven systems. (Clients at Google, Microsoft, Netflix, and more)

I used to struggle with social confidence (in fact, I had a speech impediment so bad I couldn't say my own name!) so I know exactly how frustrating it can feel, and how freeing it is to overcome.

My advice has been featured in INC, TIME, Business Insider, Yahoo Finance and more. I'd love to help you become a more socially confident version of you!
What happens in a coaching session?
In a coaching session, we’ll identify your biggest sticking points, create a clear action plan, and break social skills into small, achievable habits. It’s a structured, supportive space designed for fast, noticeable progress.

When you're not in a coaching session, you'll have access to on demand video lessons, and you'll be able to DM me with questions in my private coaching Slack channel.
What kind of results have past clients had?
They are speaking up in more meetings at work, having better conversations, and feeling more socially confident than they ever have before!

But don't take my word for it!

Let my clients tell you themselves: Check out over a dozen coaching case studies here.
What is the time commitment for private coaching?
Around 2-5 hours per week.

The great thing about people skills is that you can practice while interacting with co-workers, bosses, friends or family. For most clients this ends up being less than 5 hours per week.
I know someone who needs coaching. Do you accept referrals?
Yes, with a BIG caveat.

I do accept referrals, but only if that person is open to coaching.

If you know of one friend, family member, employee or coworker who could use my help, refer them to my site and let them apply for private coaching.
I'm the parent of a college student. Do you coach college students?
Yes! Please fill out an application for your college student and we'll hop on a call and discuss ​their situation and I'll let you know if I can help!

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